Disadvantages of dating a younger woman
Many women in their 30’s have had much of that “light” burned out of them by stressful kids, numerous failed relationships, financial pressures, and all kinds of other baggage. Hit up You Tube, watch a few interviews of her when she was 19, then watch a few of her today.The first woman will be bubbly, enthusiastic and excited.Things that used to be enjoyable to her, like sex on the first or second date, or very casual sexual relationships, are now suddenly horrible and largely unacceptable.That doesn’t mean dating women over 33 is 100% bad.Societal Programming, particularly in the manosphere, preaches that younger women have perfect bodies, and as soon as they cross over age 30, their SMV instantly plummets and their bodies instantly get disgusting. Indeed, I have encountered a hell of a lot of the exact opposite; younger women with stretch marks and other weirdness from babies, weight gain, smoking weed, drinking alcohol, tats, and piercings, and women over 30, often over 30, with perfect, amazing, tight, trim, teenager-like bodies.
One of my favorite things to do with a non-FB woman in my life is to just sit and talk to her. Barring rare exceptions, you will not be able to do this with a woman this young, particularly if you are an older guy (over age 35). Assuming both women are of reasonable intelligence, I don’t think women over 33 have any significant advantage in this area than younger women. If your objective is to get into a long, consistent relationship that’s more serious than a FB, the older the woman is, the better your odds become, regardless of if it’s an MLTR or OLTR (though OLTR will usually last longer than a MLTR if the woman is older).
There are great things about dating younger women, and very bad things.
There are great things about dating older women, and very bad things. First, as always, we need to get our definitions straight. Longtime readers know that in general, I separate the “older” vs. As I’ve discussed many times here, when a woman crosses over age 33 (if not sooner), her ASD spikes into the stratosphere and her entire attitude about dating, men, and sex changes forever.
Many of you guys in my age group seem to agree this is an enjoyable thing to do with a woman. Many men point this out as one of the greatest disadvantages of younger women, and I agree (though I think drama and flakiness are bigger disadvantages). However, is there a noticeable difference between the conversational, intellectual ability of a woman in her mid to late 20’s vs. (Of course there are low-intelligence idiots in any age range; I’m not talking about those, and those women should only be FB’s anyway.) Thus, the summary here is that women age 23 and over win here, women under 23 lose, and lose big. This actually flips the other way if we’re talking about FB’s; younger women will last far longer in FB’s than older women will.
Older women tend to be much less comfortable with casual relationships (unless they’re cheating on a husband/boyfriend and you’re the guy on the side).